5 Reasons Men Really Need To Add Pegging To The Menu

Hello, my name’s Josh, and I’m passionate about pegging.

No, this isn’t an application form for a spot on the Apprentice gone horribly wrong. This is a conversation that needs to be had - because fellas, if you’re not getting down on your hands and knees on a regular basis, you’re not exploiting the full potential of your god-given organ. No, not your cock – your prostate.

For the lads out there not yet familiar with one the most wondrous sex acts on the planet, here’s a little context. You know those plastic phalluses our wives and girlfriends use to pleasure themselves after we’ve rolled off for the evening, leaving them to ‘read’ or ‘check their emails’? Well, imagine if your partner strapped it onto herself and proceeded to give you a right good rogering? Anally.

Sure, it might sound a bit out there for an unseasoned bum-curious sexual explorer such as yourself, but seriously, let’s talk benefits.

1. It feels f***ing amazing

Imagine the best, non-prostate instigated orgasm you’ve ever had in your life. Now multiply it. By ten. That’s what we’re talking about here lads.

We’re talking the only sexual experience a man can have that compares to the multiple orgasm, and you know what, you can have them too! All it takes is a little open-mindedness, and a lot of lube.

2. It’ll make you closer to your partner

For one thing, you’ll be switching up traditional gender dynamics, which is a major turn on and the ultimate way to keep things fresh in the bedroom.

While mainstream sexual politics equates ‘receiving’ with ‘submitting’, and ‘giving’ with ‘dominating’, switching up positions will give you both a better idea of what your partner enjoys about their usual ‘role’. It will also teach you why you should really take care of your fingernails for any kind of manual masturbation.

3. It'll teach you the importance of listening to your partner’s feedback and communication

Believe me, you’re going to need to communicate a lot while you’re slamming. You’ll need to let your partner know what you like, what feels good, what feels bad, and what feels fucking amazing.

If it doesn’t exist already, it will open up a sexual dialogue that will lead to better sex whether you’re pegging or not. Communication is, and always will be, key.

4. It’ll make you more in touch with your body

Face it lads, we’re not working with a very subtle package. You get hard, you rub it, and your orgasm. Now, that’s not very fun is it? Have you ever watched your partner masturbate? There’s a whole variety of ways a woman can orgasm, and to be fair our options are limited, and a little disappointing.

But, and this is a little homework for you, try fingering yourself the next time you have some ‘alone time’. Feel all the different ways you can stimulate yourself, the different positions you can experiment with, the difference between edging and insertion. Feels pretty exciting, doesn’t it? When was the last time you felt excited masturbating? Probably when you were 13, hunched over cartoon nudes in the nearest encyclopedia you could get your hands on. Anal play will reignite your passion for self love, I kid you not.

5. Variety

How many dildos, vibrators, eggs, anal beads and anal plugs are on the market? Literally millions. Male masturbation devices are, for all intents and purposes, a fucking joke. Seriously, have you ever respected anyone after finding out they have a fleshlight? No. Because it’s a fleshy cum sock. But imagine if you had your pick of all the amazing phallic objects in the world? Payday suddenly got a lot more exciting, huh?

You could try any vibrator that took your fancy, any strap on your heart desired, hell, you could get a double ended dildo and play with your partner! Now wouldn’t that be a trip.

So what’ll it be, fellas? Another night of half-baked passion, or a taboo-testing experiment that will, more likely than not, bring you closer to your partner, give you the best orgasm of your fucking life, and make you feel like a secure, confident man?

I’ll bet my arse you’re gonna make the right choice.

- Words by Josh Pappenheim. 

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